Dating site rejection letter
I have a great job, I own a house, and I feel like I have my head on straight.I have also been single for close to a decade (mostly due to my own fear of getting into another relationship).With online dating, there’s more of a cultural norm (among most people, at least) that if you’re not interested, there’s no need to respond to say that; it’s okay to just delete the message.Part of it, too, is that there’s more of an understanding (or at least there’s supposed to be) that hiring and applying for jobs is, well, business not personal.– Desert Island a numbers game, but you won't win anything if you're exhausted and feeling bad about yourself. It's OK to spend a few weeks letting men email you. It helps to have quality, out-of-the-house social time to balance all of the hours spent staring at your computer, wondering why some guy winked and then disappeared. I wish I could tell you why these guys wink, like, and then ignore your emails. My theory is that for many people, online dating is like a card game. I also think I would get more pushback of the kind hiring managers sometimes get when we reject an applicant. Part of it is just a difference in conventions — the professional conventions for hiring are different than the conventions for online dating.Employers are expected to close the loop when someone sends them business correspondence, which is what a job application is.
Thank you for writing such a sweet and engaging message!There are many reasons why someone might reject you.In fact, you may have been the one to not message back at some point.So if you met once or twice, perhaps it simply wasn’t meant to be.But if all they’ve seen is your profile, maybe it’s worth giving it a spring clean.