Post divorce dating first date realities
After my first marriage ended, I was frankly terrified at the prospect of dating again.
I was a mom of two, in my 30s, and stuck in the suburbs.
Before a date, take a moment to close your eyes and take deep breaths. But, the reality remains the same: you are afraid of being without a partner, you are lonely and in pain, and you feel like an outcast. In an ideal post-divorce world, the itch to re-partner would not arise until you are actually ready to deal with it.Grief feelings may even be contradictory, such as love and hate.Grief hurts, so you may be inclined to try to outsmart it by re-partnering prematurely.