We’re totally capable of being faithful, but can’t help but wonder if we’re missing out on something we could have had with a different partner. On top of being secure, spontaneous, adventurous, accepting, and a rock star in bed, Sagittarius women also need their mates to be borderline geniuses. Which is a good thing, except it often leaves our lovers feeling like we don’t care about them.
If you can’t challenge us intellectually, we have a hard time respecting you or feeling like you’re worthy of our affection. We don’t see any correlation between how much we love someone and how much we’d try to stop them from leaving us, and that can send the wrong message.
To avoid getting bored in a relationship, we need to mix it up A LOT.
If you can’t keep up with constant vacations, frequent new hobbies, regular home remodels, and testing out every sex position known to man, we’ll get tired of you and move on. Being independent is a good quality, but Sag women are independent to the point of almost never compromising. Sag women have a knack for turning almost every casual date into a serious love interest.
While we do make the most intense and exciting girlfriends, Sag women also have many traits that make it difficult for us to make it work long-term. We’re bored when we’re home, when we go out, when we’re single, and when we’re in a relationship.
It's important to note however that individual relationships vary enormously.
Sagittarius women need a man who doesn’t mind taking a back seat while we are busy, as the amount of free time we have to give to them varies tremendously. Most long term relationships involve a certain amount of microscopically small lies or white lies.
We’d rather have our feelings hurt than be lied to, and it takes us a long time to get over the betrayal of dishonesty.
We often take on the “if you don’t like it, leave” attitude that makes our partners feel unimportant. We are so exciting that men often mistake a little thrill for some serious emotions. We struggle with small talk and “playing nice.” It feels suffocating to us and we’d really rather not do it.
While they always eventually sort out their confusion, our easy access to relationships can make us not appreciate the one we have. Beware of taking a Sagittarius woman to things like important work events, as we’ll probably end up doing shots and telling your coworker why his tie makes him look like a loser.